At Lords, we’re passionate about helping couples find the perfect engagement ring to symbolise their love. As a leading jeweller in the UK, we’ve guided countless individuals through the exciting journey of engagement ring shopping. Whether you’re dreaming of a classic diamond engagement ring or exploring unique gemstones, we’re here to help you navigate the process with confidence.
In this comprehensive guide, we’ll walk you through the 7 most important things to consider before buying an engagement ring. From understanding your partner’s style to choosing the right precious metal, we’ve got you covered. So, let’s dive in and explore the world of engagement rings together!
1. Understanding Your Partner’s Style
The first step in choosing the perfect engagement ring is understanding your partner’s style. After all, this ring will be a cherished piece of jewellery they’ll wear every day. Here’s what to consider:
– Observe their current jewellery: Do they prefer yellow gold, white gold, or rose gold? Are their pieces typically understated or more elaborate?
– Consider their lifestyle: If your partner leads an active lifestyle, a more durable setting might be appropriate for everyday wear.
– Ask subtle questions: Try to gauge their preferences without giving away your plans. You might ask their opinion on a friend’s engagement ring or point out rings in shop windows.
– Consult with friends or family: A close friend or family member might have insights into your partner’s dream ring.
Remember, the goal is to find a ring that reflects your partner’s personal style while also symbolising your love and commitment. Whether it’s a classic solitaire or a unique custom ring, the perfect engagement ring is out there waiting for you.
2. Choosing the Centre Stone
The centre stone is the focal point of any engagement ring. While diamonds remain the most popular choice, other gemstones are increasingly popular for engagement rings. Let’s explore your options:
Diamonds: The Classic Choice
If you’re opting for a diamond engagement ring, familiarise yourself with the four Cs:
– Cut: This refers to how well the diamond has been cut and shaped, affecting its brilliance and sparkle. The cut is arguably the most important factor in a diamond’s beauty.
– Clarity: This measures how clear the diamond is, with fewer inclusions or blemishes resulting in a higher clarity grade. Many inclusions are not visible to the naked eye.
– Colour: Diamonds are graded on a scale from D (colourless) to Z (light yellow or brown). Generally speaking, the less colour, the more valuable the diamond.
– Carat: This refers to the diamond’s weight, with one carat equaling 0.2 grams. Remember, bigger isn’t always better – a well-cut, smaller diamond can appear larger than a poorly cut, larger one.
At Lords, we offer both natural and lab-grown diamonds. Lab-grown diamonds have the same physical and chemical properties as natural diamonds but are often more affordable and environmentally friendly.
Popular diamond shapes include:
– Round: The most popular shape, known for its brilliance
– Cushion cut: A square or rectangular shape with rounded corners
– Emerald cut: A rectangular shape with stepped facets
– Rose cut: An antique cut with a flat bottom and domed top
Other Gemstones: A Unique Alternative
While diamonds are classic, other gemstones can make for stunning and unique engagement rings. Some popular choices include:
– Sapphires: Available in a range of colours, sapphires are durable (9 on the Mohs scale) and suitable for everyday wear.
– Emeralds: These green beauties are classic and elegant but require more care as they’re softer (7.5-8 on the Mohs scale).
– Rubies: Another durable option (9 on the Mohs scale), rubies symbolise passion and love.
When choosing a gemstone, consider both its aesthetic appeal and durability. The Mohs scale of mineral hardness is a good reference point, with diamonds at 10 being the hardest.
3. Selecting the Right Precious Metal
The choice of metal for your engagement ring is crucial as it affects both the appearance and durability of the ring. The most popular precious metals for engagement rings are:
– Yellow Gold: Classic and timeless, yellow gold suits most skin tones and complements both diamonds and coloured gemstones. It’s one of the most popular precious metals for engagement rings.
– White Gold: A modern choice that gives a similar look to platinum but at a lower price point. It’s increasingly popular for engagement rings.
– Rose Gold: This romantic, vintage-inspired option has become increasingly popular in recent years. It complements most skin tones beautifully.
– Platinum: The most durable option, platinum is hypoallergenic and maintains its colour over time. It’s more expensive than gold but ideal for those with sensitive skin.
At Lords, we use recycled precious metals in our rings, ensuring both quality and sustainability. Each metal type has its unique properties, so consider which aligns best with your partner’s style and lifestyle.
4. Deciding on the Ring Setting
The ring setting not only affects the overall look of the engagement ring but also plays a role in protecting the centre stone. Some popular settings include:
– Prong Setting: The most common setting, typically with four or six prongs holding the stone securely while allowing maximum light exposure.
– Bezel Setting: A modern option where the stone is surrounded by a metal rim, offering excellent protection.
– Halo Setting: Small diamonds surround the centre stone, making it appear larger. A double halo can create an even more dramatic effect.
– Vintage Setting: These often feature intricate details and can be a great choice for those who love antique styles.
– Tension Setting: The stone appears to be suspended between the two sides of the shank, creating a modern, striking look.
Consider both aesthetics and practicality when choosing a setting. For instance, a higher setting might catch on clothing, while a lower setting offers more protection for active lifestyles.
5. Determining the Right Ring Size
Getting the right ring size is crucial, but it can be tricky if you’re planning a surprise proposal. Here are some ways to determine the correct size:
– Borrow one of their rings: If your partner wears rings, borrow one they wear on their ring finger and have it sized by a jeweller.
– Ask a friend or family member: They might know your partner’s size or be able to find out discreetly.
– Use a ring sizer: At Lords, we offer free ring sizers that you can use at home.
Remember, it’s generally better to err on the larger side as it’s easier to size a ring down than up. At Lords, we offer one free resizing within the first year of purchase to ensure a perfect fit.
6. Considering the Wedding Band
While you’re focused on the engagement ring, it’s worth thinking ahead to the wedding band. Some things to consider:
– Will the wedding band sit flush with the engagement ring? Some engagement ring designs may require a specially shaped wedding band.
– Do you want matching bands? Some couples opt for wedding rings that complement the engagement ring.
– What metal will the wedding band be? It’s generally best to match the metal of the engagement ring and wedding band to prevent wear.
At Lords, we offer a range of wedding bands designed to pair perfectly with our engagement rings, making it easy to plan ahead.
7. Understanding the Practicalities
Finally, there are some practical considerations to keep in mind:
Budget
The old rule of thumb suggesting three months’ salary for an engagement ring is outdated. At Lords, we believe the perfect ring is one that you love and can comfortably afford. We offer a range of options to suit various budgets without compromising on quality.
Certification
For diamond rings, ensure the stone comes with a certification from a reputable organisation like the Gemological Institute of America (GIA). This provides assurance of the diamond’s quality and characteristics.
Insurance
Given the sentimental and monetary value of an engagement ring, we strongly recommend getting jewellery insurance. This protects your investment against loss, theft, or damage.
Aftercare
Understanding how much upkeep your ring will require is important. Some settings or stones may need more frequent cleaning or checks. At Lords, we offer aftercare services to keep your ring looking its best for years to come.
Conclusion
Choosing an engagement ring is a deeply personal journey. Whether you’re drawn to a classic diamond solitaire or a unique custom ring featuring coloured gemstones, the perfect engagement ring is out there waiting for you. At Lords, we’re committed to helping you find that dream ring that will symbolise your love for years to come.
Remember, while these guidelines are helpful, there are no hard and fast rules when it comes to engagement rings. The most important thing is that the ring feels right for you and your partner. It should be a reflection of your unique love story.
We hope this guide has been helpful in your engagement ring shopping journey. If you have any questions or would like to see our collection of engagement rings, please don’t hesitate to visit us in-store or explore our website. Our expert team is always here to help you find that perfect ring to mark the beginning of your forever.
Whether you’re looking for a classic diamond engagement ring, a unique gemstone piece, or a custom creation, Lords has something for every style and budget. From yellow gold to platinum, from solitaires to halo settings, we’re here to guide you through every step of the process.
Remember, buying an engagement ring is more than just a purchase – it’s the start of a beautiful journey. Let us help you make it perfect.
Frequently Asked Questions
1. How much should I spend on an engagement ring?
The old rule of thumb suggesting three months’ salary is outdated. At Lords, we believe you should spend what you’re comfortable with. There’s no set amount that’s “right” – it’s about finding a balance between your budget and your partner’s expectations. Remember, the value of an engagement ring isn’t just in its price tag but in the love and commitment it represents.
2. What’s the difference between natural and lab-grown diamonds?
Natural diamonds have been formed deep within the Earth for over billions of years, while lab-grown diamonds are created in a controlled laboratory environment. They have the same physical, chemical, and optical properties as natural diamonds. Lab-grown diamonds are often more affordable and environmentally friendly, but some people prefer the rarity and traditional value of natural diamonds. At Lords, we offer both options to suit different preferences and budgets.
3. Are coloured gemstones suitable for engagement rings?
Absolutely! While diamonds are traditional, coloured gemstones like sapphires, rubies, and emeralds are increasingly popular for engagement rings. They offer a unique look and can be more affordable than diamonds. However, consider the gemstone’s durability (hardness on the Mohs scale) for everyday wear. Sapphires and rubies (both scoring 9) are excellent choices, while softer stones like emeralds (7.5-8) may require more care.
4. What’s the most popular engagement ring style?
The most popular engagement ring style tends to be a round brilliant cut diamond in a solitaire setting, often in white gold or platinum. However, popularity shouldn’t dictate your choice. The best engagement ring is one that suits your partner’s style and preferences. At Lords, we offer a wide range of styles from classic to contemporary, ensuring you’ll find the perfect ring.
5. How do I figure out my partner’s ring size without them knowing?
There are several sneaky ways to determine your partner’s ring size:
- Borrow one of their existing rings and have it sized by a jeweller
- Ask a friend or family member for help
- Use a printable ring sizer on a ring they already own
- If all else fails, err on the larger side – it’s easier to resize a ring smaller than larger
6. What’s the difference between white gold and platinum?
While white gold and platinum look similar, there are some key differences:
- Durability: Platinum is more durable and doesn’t wear away over time
- Weight: Platinum is denser and heavier than white gold
- Maintenance: White gold may need replating every few years to maintain its colour, while platinum develops a patina over time
- Price: Platinum is generally more expensive than white gold
Both are excellent choices for engagement rings, and the best option depends on personal preference and budget.